You have to make sex work for you 😘🖤
Hi!
I’m really jealous of my husband.
Not for everything.
Like, I wouldn’t want his distractability.
The poor bastard seems a bit overworked, too. I don’t know that I could handle that.
And I don’t think I’d want to be a guy, either. Though it’s really fun to play one in VR.
But sex is really easy for him. And I wish it was for me.
He can get horny at the drop of a hat. And twice as fast if I drop my pants instead.
He’s up for some action whenever he isn’t working. Though he’d probably bang me during his work hours if I asked nicely enough - or just asked at all.
And he always has a really good time. Sex doesn’t wipe him out - it energizes him. It’s never uncomfortable - and if it is, he seems to think it’s worth it.
No muss. No fuss. Just a guy who’s down to fuck.
I’m basically the opposite.
Sex is tough for me.
My libido’s all messed up. It takes a whole production for me to get turned on.
It spooks easily, too. One wrong move and I lose interest in getting frisky.
Fucking’s hard on me, too.
My joints are weak and fragile. Too much pressure on my wrists or my knees and they’re out of commission for a day or two. I have to be careful with my back, too.
And I’m starting to realize I get emotionally exhausted if I have sex that’s too over the top.
Doing me is probably like fucking a GILF, even though I’m MILF aged at best - and a sweet little stepsister at heart.
Which is something I’ve had a really hard time accepting.
Because there seem to be a lot of people who don’t want you to accept it.
When I struggled with a low sex drive, I kept seeing the same advice over and over again - just have sex anyway.
Now that I’m dealing with chronic pain, I keep feeling like I’m supposed to push through and take it. Because it’s supposed to be a mark of pride when you’re too sore to walk the day after.
When I can only handle lazy sex, I think of all the guys who complain about girls who are dull in bed.
And honestly, it’s really annoying.
Because having to modify sex and put all sorts of limits on how you do it is frustrating enough as it is. Feeling like you’re some kind of frigid wuss on top of it doesn’t help.
So, this is my little PSA for today. I wanted to take a minute to remind you that you’ve got to have sex in a way that works for you.
Sex shouldn’t be something you just tolerate. It shouldn’t be uncomfortable or painful. It should be fun and enjoyable.
That might mean giving up on a few positions you really wish you could pull off.
It could mean getting fucked in the spooning position, without any fancy moves or anything too energetic.
It might mean short blowjobs or slow handjobs with a weak grip.
It could be a lot of nights where you’d just rather do some mutual masturbation because you really don’t know if you can handle much more than that.
And it means calling it if you just can’t get in the mood - even if you tried really hard.
You might worry that it’s not good enough. But it is.
Just have sex in whatever way works for you and enjoy every minute of it.
Not everyone has it easy like my husband does - that damn bastard.
And that’s okay. Because there’s nothing wrong with a GILFy sex life.
Love,
Emma ❤
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