When she's shy and sexy😊😏

Aug 23, 2020

Hi!

I’ve always had a very dirty mind.

But you couldn’t tell by the way I had sex.

I got off to videos of babysitters getting jackhammered while moaning “fuck me daddy” but I couldn’t bring myself to say a word during sex.

I had elaborate erotic fantasies but I couldn’t even take my shirt off during sex.

I wanted to fuck like I was in a porn film, but I didn’t want to get in any position that made me feel exposed.

It’s like my embarrassment and my horniness were always battling each other - and the embarrassment always won.

Last year, though, my horny side beat it out.

Now, I’m fucking completely naked with the lights on.

I’m fucking on top even though it makes me feel a little exposed. I’m going face down, ass up for anal even though it means he can see everything.

I’m covering up less around my husband and taking nudes instead of hating my body.

I built a lot of sexual confidence, came out of my shell, and started having the kind of sex I want to have.

I used to get tons of complaints from guys who would tell me that their wife was too timid about sex. Or that their girlfriend was too embarrassed to just let go and be a freak in bed.

They seemed frustrated. They seemed like they tried everything but just couldn’t get her to open up.

I decided to help these guys out and anyone else who is in that situation.

Being self-conscious really does fuck up your sex life. And there’s a lot that you can do to fix it. But nothing helps better than having a partner who does all the right things.

This week, I wrote about how you can help your self-conscious partner gain more sexual confidence and improve her sex life.

I also wrote about the best positions for anal sex, how to give a nipple orgasm, and how to stay anonymous in the nude photos you share or post online.

And on the podcast, Jake and I talk about pussy massages! They’re sensual, intimate - and will probably make her come really fucking hard.

Enjoy!

Love,

Emma ❤

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My Latest Medium Posts

These are the articles I published this week on Medium. They're all Friend Links so you can read them for free, even without a Medium Membership.

From Love, Emma

Maybe it’s the all the hormones. Maybe it’s the extra intimacy. Maybe it’s because you just burned some calories. Whatever the reason, snacks after sex are better than any other snacks.

This week on Love, Emma I share my thoughts on why whipped cream during sex isn’t as hot as it sounds - but whipped cream after a fuck is so damn satisfying.

Pillow Talk with Emma Austin

Have you ever had a pussy massage?

I don't mean fingering or manual sex. I mean a full-blown, hour-long, slow, lubricated massage.

If you haven't, you really should give it a try. And this week, we go over how we discovered pussy massages, why they're so damn divine, and how to give one.

We also talk about being rope bondage noobs, pussy rubbing playlists, third-person sex fantasies, and we put Tantric sex on blast (don't @ us).

Check out the show notes for relevant links. And if you love the show, consider rating and reviewing it on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Podchaser, or anywhere else!

Something Spicy

I love daddies! If you do, too, this book might be right up your alley. It's an erotic about meeting your best friend's dad and getting very well acquainted with him.

Seducing My Best Friend's Daddy

She calls him her “daddy,” but tonight he’s mine.

Tina warned me to be careful around her dad.

He’s got a wandering eye. And he and his wife have an “arrangement.”

I don’t want to do anything to jeopardize my friendship with Tina.

I know it’s wrong. He’s more than twice my age. But if we’re ever alone, I don’t know that I could resist.

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Love, Emma