Hi!
Iâve always had a very dirty mind.
But you couldnât tell by the way I had sex.
I got off to videos of babysitters getting jackhammered while moaning âfuck me daddyâ but I couldnât bring myself to say a word during sex.
I had elaborate erotic fantasies but I couldnât even take my shirt off during sex.
I wanted to fuck like I was in a porn film, but I didnât want to get in any position that made me feel exposed.
Itâs like my embarrassment and my horniness were always battling each other - and the embarrassment always won.
Last year, though, my horny side beat it out.
Now, Iâm fucking completely naked with the lights on.
Iâm fucking on top even though it makes me feel a little exposed. Iâm going face down, ass up for anal even though it means he can see everything.
Iâm covering up less around my husband and taking nudes instead of hating my body.
I built a lot of sexual confidence, came out of my shell, and started having the kind of sex I want to have.
I used to get tons of complaints from guys who would tell me that their wife was too timid about sex. Or that their girlfriend was too embarrassed to just let go and be a freak in bed.
They seemed frustrated. They seemed like they tried everything but just couldnât get her to open up.
I decided to help these guys out and anyone else who is in that situation.
Being self-conscious really does fuck up your sex life. And thereâs a lot that you can do to fix it. But nothing helps better than having a partner who does all the right things.
This week, I wrote about how you can help your self-conscious partner gain more sexual confidence and improve her sex life.
I also wrote about the best positions for anal sex, how to give a nipple orgasm, and how to stay anonymous in the nude photos you share or post online.
And on the podcast, Jake and I talk about pussy massages! Theyâre sensual, intimate - and will probably make her come really fucking hard.
Enjoy!
Love,
Emma â¤
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My Latest Medium Posts
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From Love, Emma
Maybe itâs the all the hormones. Maybe itâs the extra intimacy. Maybe itâs because you just burned some calories. Whatever the reason, snacks after sex are better than any other snacks.
This week on Love, Emma I share my thoughts on why whipped cream during sex isnât as hot as it sounds - but whipped cream after a fuck is so damn satisfying.
Pillow Talk with Emma Austin
Have you ever had a pussy massage?
I don't mean fingering or manual sex. I mean a full-blown, hour-long, slow, lubricated massage.
If you haven't, you really should give it a try. And this week, we go over how we discovered pussy massages, why they're so damn divine, and how to give one.
We also talk about being rope bondage noobs, pussy rubbing playlists, third-person sex fantasies, and we put Tantric sex on blast (don't @ us).
Check out the show notes for relevant links. And if you love the show, consider rating and reviewing it on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Podchaser, or anywhere else!
Something Spicy
I love daddies! If you do, too, this book might be right up your alley. It's an erotic about meeting your best friend's dad and getting very well acquainted with him.
Seducing My Best Friend's Daddy
She calls him her âdaddy,â but tonight heâs mine.
Tina warned me to be careful around her dad.
Heâs got a wandering eye. And he and his wife have an âarrangement.â
I donât want to do anything to jeopardize my friendship with Tina.
I know itâs wrong. Heâs more than twice my age. But if weâre ever alone, I donât know that I could resist.
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