Wanna have some phone sex?
Hi!
Like everyone else, I’m socially distancing at the moment. And I’m really grateful that I get to do it with my family.
Having my husband at home has been a real blessing, but everything still feels so still and quiet.
The streets are almost always empty. I haven’t interacted with someone I’m not related to in weeks. Even Twitter has been surprisingly quiet.
It makes me crave connection.
It makes me crave phone sex, too.
I haven’t had phone sex in a while because there’s no one in my life I’m comfortable phone fucking (#demisexualproblems).
So, all I can do is be a phone sex cheerleader and live vicariously through all of you.
If you have a partner, a friend with benefits, or someone cute who’s DTF but you can’t be with them in person, you should be phone fucking them.
If you haven’t already, I feel you. I used to be way too shy for phone sex (or for phone anything, really).
Even if I got over my shyness, I don’t think I even knew what to do once you got on the phone.
Like, do you just say dirty words until you both come?
But the first time I tried it, I realized I was worried for nothing. There are ways to have highly satisfying phone sex when you’re too shy to talk. And there are ways to do it without having to improvise an erotic story for your partner.
This week, I wanted to help you out by putting together a guide to phone sex. It’s got tips for helping you get on the phone if you’re a little scared to do it, tips for what to say (if anything) once you’re on the call, and some tips for spicing things up so each phone sex session is different.
I also wrote about why men need to be more vocal during sex, why sexual aftercare is not optional, how I become a completely different type of person when I’m fantasizing about women instead of men, and about the time things got a little weird with my husband and I realized I needed a safeword.
And on the Pillow Talk podcast, we played a game called Pillow Talk. It gets us talking about group sex, footjobs, that time we tried fucking in the shower, and our attempt at filming homemade porn.
Enjoy!
Love,
Emma
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New on Love, Emma
This week on Love, Emma, I troubleshoot a problem I used to have, and that you might too. Don’t just ask to go down on her - ask in the right way.
Pillow Talk with Emma Austin
How well do you know your partner's fantasies and desires?
This week, we tried a game called Pillow Talk. It's designed to get couples (or groups of very open minded adults) talking about their sex life and what they want out of it.
It gets us talking about everything from foot stuff and gang bangs to scalp massage foreplay.
And it's got the same name as the podcast, so we sort of had to.
Something Spicy
I love daddies! If you do, too, this book might be right up your alley. It's an erotic about meeting your best friend's dad and getting very well acquainted with him.
Seducing My Best Friend's Daddy
She calls him her “daddy,” but tonight he’s mine.
Tina warned me to be careful around her dad.
He’s got a wandering eye. And he and his wife have an “arrangement.”
I don’t want to do anything to jeopardize my friendship with Tina.
I know it’s wrong. He’s more than twice my age. But if we’re ever alone, I don’t know that I could resist.
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