This sexual domination stuff ain't easy 😳😅
Hi!
Sexually dominant women are fucking amazing - no matter what kind of dominance they’re into.
The full-blown dommes who will give you pleasure but flog you if you forget to thank them properly.
The ones who turn into bitchy mean girls the moment they start fucking.
The mommy dommes who know exactly how to handle someone younger and brattier.
Older women with MILF confidence too. The ones who can pull off playing stern teachers. Or just a girl who knows exactly what she wants and isn’t afraid to demand it.
Every single one of them makes me want to get on my knees and do everything in my power to please them.
And my brain is chock full of fantasies involving dominant women.
Ones where I’m getting tied up and edged by a Magic Wand while she makes me beg for more.
Ones where I’ve earned a spanking over her knee - one that turns into a pussy rub that makes me blush and come.
Ones where she’s wearing a strap-on and using all my holes while calling me a good girl for doing everything she tells me to.
Simple ones too, where she tells me to eat her pussy and then pushes my face deeper into her when I’m not going hard enough.
What I’m saying is I have some pretty good ideas of what I’d want a dominant lady to do to me.
And I thought that meant I could do it myself. That I could just switch and get super dominant if I had to. I’d just do all the things I’ve seen hot, low-key mean MILFs do in porn.
Then the cock cage showed up in the mail.
It came from one of my long-time podcast listeners and certified good boy. It was meant as a fun little experiment - I’d cage up my husband, take control of his cock, and we’d see where things went.
And I won’t spoil what happens just yet - that’s for a future podcast episode.
But I will say that it took a long time for me to even get started on the caging experiment. Because it turns out this domme shit is a lot harder than it looks.
Not for the reasons I thought it would be.
I knew I’d have a tough time being bossy - that takes a level of confidence I don’t always have.
I’m used to dressing up like a comfy sweetheart when it’s sex o’clock, so I worried that putting together a domme outfit would make me feel silly.
And maybe I wouldn’t be able to get into it. The thought of dominating my husband isn’t exactly my biggest turn on.
But nope. It wasn’t any of those things.
It was making decisions.
Turns out that’s the hardest part of being sexually dominant. Being in charge. Having to take the lead. Figuring out what my husband would do - and what I’d do to him.
Even narrowing down my options felt overwhelming. Do I just cage him? Do I use him for my pleasure? Do I refuse to let him pleasure himself without my permission? And how does he even earn it?
I basically froze for a few months. Just thinking about the cage gave me decision fatigue.
There were too many choices and possibilities. And I’ve geared my entire sex life to eliminating decisions.
I finally got it done. I used the cage, I played the domme, and I had some fun doing it too.
Now I can finally go back to my usual fantasies - letting hot dominant women make every decision for me.
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It’s not just domination that’s tricky. Some of my subby kinks give me trouble too.
There are four in particular that I love, love, love - but make sex a little more complicated than it should be.
There are a few things that guys really struggle with when it comes to sex.
Dick size is a big one for some reason.
Having cucky, submissive, or bisexual fantasies is another.
But all of them are nothing compared to finding out their partner’s ex was a better fuck.
For a lot of guys, that’s devastating news. But it doesn’t have to be - not if you take the right attitude to it.
Enjoy!
Love,
Emma ❤
Guess I’ll just get naked then 🤭
So I’m not a natural domme.
But that didn’t stop me from filming a little bit of content anyway.
I mean, why waste the cage time?
I don’t know when that’s coming out - or if it will ever see the light of day.
But until then, I’ll keep posting nudes, filthy GIFs, and naughty content to my OnlyFans and my JustForFans pages! Joining either one gives you access to all my explicit and hardcore content! 🖤
Okay, let’s get kinky! 😈
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