These are the things she secretly wants 🤫🔥


This has been a major week for me.

In a lot of ways, it was ordinary. I wrote and published a few articles. I recorded some podcast episodes. I tweeted a few things (including the biggest dong I own).

But it felt completely different.

A while ago, I mentioned on my podcast that I have ADHD. It affects pretty much everything I do, how much work I can accomplish, how quickly I get tired, and how horny I get.

Well, I’ve finally been prescribed stimulant medication to manage it. My brain feels a lot clearer. I feel like I can actually focus when I need to. And I just plain feel better.

With any luck, it will help me be more creative too!

I used some of my newfound energy to put together a piece about the things women want when they’re having sex.

Every woman is different, obviously, but I can’t help but notice trends. Whenever these kinds of discussions come up online, the women chiming in keep sharing the same answers.

So, I decided to put together the ones I’ve seen more often. These are the things guys aren’t doing in bed that women really wish they did.

Edging is something that rarely comes up in those discussions, but it should.

Getting edged is so fucking pleasurable that I want it practically every time I have sex.

It spoiled me. But it also makes me come really fucking hard so maybe that’s not such a bad thing.

And because I think more women should get to experience it, I put together a little guide on how to do it well.

Did you know that ball gags are kind of dangerous?

I didn’t. But now I know better.

If you own a ball gag or think you might ever use one, make sure you know how to do it safely!



Emma ❤

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Pillow Talk with Emma Austin

One of the downsides of having unmedicated ADHD is that it was really, really hard to keep up with podcast recordings. This week was one that I just had to skip.

Hopefully that changes!

Another thing I really hope changes is my sex drive. My distractability really messes with my ability to get turned on and stay horny.

I devoted an episode to it back in January. And we also talked about some double penetration play we had recently enjoyed (like, extremely enjoyed!) If you haven’t heard it, you can check it out here!

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