There's more to attractiveness than being hot 😬😅
Hi!
I’ve been thinking about hot people lately.
Well okay, that’s not exactly news.
I think about hot people a lot.
I really love basking in someone’s hotness.
Admiring them. Leering at them.
Undressing them with my eyes and wishing I could undress them with my hands.
That sort of thing.
But no, lately I haven’t been basking. Not really.
I’ve been doing the opposite of basking - whatever that is.
Because Mr. Austin and I have been watching 90 Day Fiance: The Single Life.
And it’s great. I’m all in on 90 Day. I want to peer into all these people’s lives and dissect all those relationships.
It’s like the dirty thrill of gossiping about other couples - but totally harmless because we don’t run in the same circles.
It’s also full of handy reminders.
Like all the red flags you should watch out for when you meet someone.
Or that dating sounds fun in theory but can be a nightmare in reality.
And that being hot doesn’t necessarily make someone attractive.
Because this show has its share of hot people.
Some of them reel me in. Like, I’ll pick up my phone midway through an episode to check if they have an OnlyFans. Because if I’m gonna bask in their hotness, I want to bask in all of it.
But others, nah.
They have gorgeous faces, great bodies, the kind of look cameras were invented to capture.
They’re easy on the eyes.
But that’s all they’re easy on.
Because soon enough, you find out that they’re mean, self-involved, or duller than beach glass.
And then all the appeal goes away.
They still look good, but it doesn’t do much for me anymore.
I get the ick for them. Or just kind of lose interest. I don’t look at them the same way I did when they first showed up on screen.
We tend to talk about attractiveness like it’s all about the surface level stuff.
Like girls with soft features and thick thighs. Or guys with sharp cheekbones and strong hands. I dunno - whatever it is that floats your boat.
But it’s way more than that.
It’s how funny someone is.
How talented and passionate they can be.
Their ability to keep a conversation going instead of making you carry the whole thing.
How sweet, helpful, and kind they can be.
Or being able to create some chemistry.
Curvy hips and a great ass don’t hurt one bit. But they’re really not enough.
And I don’t know, I guess that’s kind of comforting.
Because it means you don’t actually have to look like a model to be attractive.
As long as you don’t have the personality of a potato, you’ve got what it takes to be really appealing.
Love,
Emma ❤
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