The ultimate seduction technique for shy girls 🍑🍾

Emma Austin

Dec 21, 2025

Hi!

I had to get a bottle of vodka the other day.

No really, I did.

Not for drinking. I wanted it so I could make my own perfume.

It’s a DIY concoction with vodka, distilled water, and peach essential oil.

I don’t know if it actually worked - it has to sit for about a month before I can test it out. But I really hope it does because then I’ll get to smell peachy on the cheap.

That was actually my first time stepping foot in the liquor store all year. So I figured I’d make the most of it. After I located the rows of identical-looking vodka bottles and got the one I’d come for, I went to scope out the coolers.

All the peach-flavored ones looked so good - you’re probably sensing a theme here. But it’d been so long since I drank anything, I didn’t really know which one to get.

So I got them all.

Well, not all of them. But as many as I could carry in my hands without the risk of dropping one.

And now I’ve got half a dozen sweet drinks chilling in the fridge.

I haven’t had one yet, though.

I’m saving them for a night when I’m not too busy, and I’m in a decent mood. Because I don’t want to drink while I’m sad - that’ll just make things worse. And I don’t want to drink when I’m rushed - that’s a waste of booze.

Also, I want to give my husband a shot at getting some.

Alright, look. Here’s the thing.

Back in the day, I used to go out and try to get laid all the time. I was hormonal, looking for validation, and on a quest to find love. And I was mostly looking for it in the wrong places, because I figured I could fuck my way to a sweet, loving, long-term relationship.

And I suppose I kind of did. Because I met Mr. Austin during that time, so it worked out in the end. Even if I had to fuck a few frogs along the way - and at least a couple genuine hotties.

But as horny and willing as I was, I was still a super shy girl.

So I had to loosen myself up a bit. Make myself feel brave and bold, even if I knew I wasn’t.

I’d have a few drinks, and that did the trick. Suddenly, I wasn’t quite as bashful. I’d be willing to speak my mind and go for what I wanted - and who I wanted.

And it worked. My getting laid batting average was pretty decent, if you ask me. As long as I had a few cheap beers or sugary sweet coolers, I could get there.

Well, now my batting average kind of sucks.

No, I’m not trying to get laid all the time anymore. But that’s kind of the problem.

I’m a happily married woman who wishes she was having more sex, but can’t seem to make that happen in practice.

Because - I mean, I don’t know. All sorts of reasons.

I’m always deeply exhausted and I go to bed super early all the time. I’m usually sore somewhere because I slept funny.

I hardly ever feel cute because I don’t always have the energy to get dolled up.

I’m a mess of stress and anxiety, so that’s a whole thing.

Plus, Mr. Austin’s busy all day. His life is a big wall of work, parenting, chores, and running errands. That doesn’t leave much time for romance - especially with all the anxiety I tend to unload on him the minute he’s free.

And even though we’ve been married for forever, there’s a little part of me that feels kind of weird about just going for it and doing it. I dunno. It’s like a lot to think about when my plate’s already full, I guess.

But I want to fuck more.

I really do.

I even put it on my 2025 Bingo Card. It was literally the first thing I wrote on it: “have more sex.”

And look, I didn’t keep count or anything but I definitely didn’t knock that one out of the park.

Plus, I genuinely love my husband. Fucking him is a blast. It makes us feel so much closer. And that man can make me come like nobody’s business.

So that’s part of the reason I walked out of the liquor store with a bunch of peach-flavored booze.

Because I’m going back to my old ways.

I’m going to wait for a good night, get a little tipsy, and then let him hit it.

Because again, my sex batting average sucks. But drunk sex batting average is solid.

And yeah, I get that it’s not the way you’re supposed to do things.

You’re not supposed to get drunk so you can get laid. You’re supposed to have a frank and open conversation with your husband about your needs. You’re supposed to communicate and work it out as a couple. You’re supposed to flirt until it just happens.

But I’m also a grown woman trying to make her marriage a little happier. And if it takes a couple of cans of liquid panty remover, then so be it.

You just gotta do what works.

And I can’t just get relaxed, put myself in a sexual mindset, and fill myself with enough desire to hop on that dick like an Easter Bunny with tits. Not with my frazzled brain.

I can’t set an entire day aside just to spend with him and be all intimate. There just isn’t enough time for that.

But what I can do is share a few drinks with him and make myself super easy.

That worked really well when I tried the Tabs sex chocolates.

And I’m pretty sure it’ll work pretty well with these coolers too.

It’s just part of being a shy girl. Even when you’re married and in love, sometimes the best way to initiate sex is to make yourself as easy as you can and let him take it from there.

And if it works as well as I hope it will, I’ll be running back to the liquor store long before I run out of perfume.

Love,
Emma ❤

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