Have you ever given oral sex you were proud of?
I did the first time I gave a blowjob.
I felt like such a good, dirty girl. I had just become the kind of girl who sucked dick and I loved that about myself.
That shine wore off after a while. Sucking cock lost its novelty.
I loved doing it at the start of relationships because I was still in that heart-eyes stage where I live to make them happy.
But I wasn’t exactly proud of my cock sucking anymore.
I was self-conscious at first - wondering if I was doing a good enough job. I was aware that I wasn’t giving pornstar level BJs and worried that my mouth was going to get boring.
The twist to that story is that I got bored of blowjobs before anyone could get bored of me giving them.
I went ages without giving head - even when I was tipsy and giggly.
Then, after ten years, I started sucking dick again and I fucking loved it.
Taking my husband’s cock in his mouth and hearing him moan because of it was such an incredible turn on that I got a little bit obsessed for a while.
I watched blowjob porn, studied the techniques, pushed myself a bit more, and started giving the kind of head you just might film.
And I felt it again for the first time in over fifteen years. I was proud of myself. Not just proud of the fact that I was sucking cock, but proud of the way I was doing it.
That’s an amazing feeling.
It made me feel sexy. It made me feel powerful. It made me feel naughty and dirty in all the right ways.
I want all of my fellow cocksuckers to feel that way. So, I decided to share my favorite techniques for giving a top notch blowjob. They’re not all easy. Some of them are kind of extra. But they’ll make him come so hard you’ll feel like a goddess.
There’s another thing I’ve been doing that I hadn’t done in ages. For the last few months, I’ve been fucking with condoms.
Not every time, but definitely when I’m in my fertile window.
I didn’t have a vivid memory of what sex with a condom felt like, but it all came flooding back to me with that first thrust.
It can be a little tricky to maintain a relationship with someone who has an anxious attachment style.
Some of us are clingy. Some get jealous and passive aggressive. My version involves getting anxious and ruminating a whole lot.
Lots of people talk about anxious attachment, but very few people point out that you can actually help your partner be a whole lot more secure in your relationship.
And this week on the Pillow Talk podcast, Jake and I talk about stuck porn! It’s something we used to watch as a guilty pleasure but now endorse and enjoy without shame.
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Blowjobs are great, but another way to treat a cock to some serious pleasure is with a high quality stroker. Mr. Austin and I haven’t found any that beat a good ol’ Fleshlight. Try out the Pink Lady Stamina Training Unit if you want some serious stimulation!
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Pillow Talk with Emma Austin
Have you ever been stuck and fucked?
Me neither. But man, does stuck porn ever make it look fun!
This week, Jake and I talk about the wonderful and silly world of stuck porn. We go over the different types, ponder whether we could fuck in our pantry, and celebrate one year of podcasting!
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Wanna Watch Me Struggle With a Dildo?
A little while ago, I posted a video of me trying out my King Cock Uncut dildo on Patreon.
This week, I decided to really put myself out there and post a shorter version of it on Twitter!
I’m fully clothed and I mostly struggle with the artificial foreskin. But I was too excited about my new dildo to keep it to myself!
Check it out if you want to see me figuring out my toy in real time.