Tell me I've been a good girl
Hi!
I like to send this newsletter out first thing in the morning. But today’s a little different because I just spend the whole weekend moving.
Sorry for standing you up! I’ll be getting back to my regular schedule this week.
In the meantime, I wanted to let you all know about my biggest kink.
It’s not one that sounds very dirty but it just works for me.
I have a praise kink.
I don’t just love getting praised - I can get turned on by it.
In the right circumstances, being called a good girl can make me obscenely horny and even bring me close to orgasm.
And when I’m fucking, I work really hard to earn a lot of praise.
I give the best head I can, I submit and give control over to my partner, I act as seductively as I can - and a lot of it is so I can be told what a great job I’m doing.
And when there’s not enough praise - or when I just hear it at the end - it feels like something’s wrong. The whole vibe is off and I find it really hard to enjoy myself.
Even some good, hard dicking doesn’t quite feel right unless I’m praised for how well I’m taking it.
I know, it sounds kind of high maintenance. I feel almost ashamed to admit it.
But for whatever reason, it’s just part of who I am.
Plus, I married a guy who loves to set a girl up to earn praise and lavish her with compliments. So, it all worked out pretty well for the two of us.
This week, I wrote about my praise kink, how shy and submissive ladies like me initiate sex, and how getting high can make sex better (and what kind of cannabis to use if you want to have an amazing fuck).
And on the new episode of Pillow Talk, Jake and I discuss sensual domination and how it brought out our kinky side.
Enjoy!
Love,
Emma
My Latest Medium Posts
These are the articles I published this week on Medium. They're all Friend Links so you can read them for free, even without a Medium Membership.
Love, Emma
Because of the move, I didn’t get around to posting anything on Love, Emma this week. But here’s one of the more popular posts on the site. It’s about the first time my husband used a sex toy - which just happened to be the first time I used one on him.
Pillow Talk with Emma Austin
Can you enjoy being tied up, spanked, and choked if you're not into pain and punishment?
You can if you practice sensual domination.
This week, we talk about how we discovered sensual domination, what makes it different from other kinds of BDSM, and how it's become a very big part of our sex life.
Something Spicy
When I picture myself buying a sex doll, I always imagine playing with a silicone lady.
But when I dream of sex robots, I think of it a little more like a sex machine with a personality.
I have no idea what it would be like to fuck a sex robot, but I hope it would at least be as fun as this!
After six years of marriage, I didn't think Neil could still surprise me.
But boy was I wrong.
When Neil buys a robot for me, everything changes.
I never thought I'd ever want to sleep with a machine. But it has all these features and I can't help but wonder how much it can do.
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