Sorry but your mojo won't come back on its own 😬😅
Hi!
I have a habit of leaving post-it notes here and there.
I’ve got some stuck to the side of my PC. I used to have a few on the edges of my bathroom mirror. Until I got some whiteboards, there’d be a few around my bedroom too.
Some are for appointments and things like that.
Sometimes it’s for technical stuff. Like what to do when I accidentally make my browser window go full screen - other than ask my husband to fix it again.
But a lot of them are just lessons I keep on learning and forgetting.
Because maybe if I see them every day, they’ll actually stick.
I use them to remind myself to be positive. To move my body a bit more than I would otherwise. To try to ignore my self-doubt.
It’s not a perfect system, but it’s pretty handy.
And you can think of this as one of those post-it notes.
Because it’s a reminder I need every once in a while. And maybe it’ll be useful for you too.
Your mojo won’t just come back on its own.
You actually have to go looking for it.
Mine has come and gone so many times that I really should know better by now.
But it’s easy to forget. Because for whatever reason, it feels like you just have to wait around for it.
Like if enough time passes, your desires will just stir themselves back up.
So you put your hair up, stay in your comfy jammies all day, and keep checking your phone to see if your libido has texted you back yet.
But it won’t. Because it doesn’t work that way.
You have to do things that will fire it back up.
You have to spend some genuine quality time with your partner. You need to connect emotionally, not just be around each other.
You’ve got to stop doomscrolling and get back into your hobbies - because the more interesting you are, the more fuckable you’ll feel.
You have to get a little flirty with someone. Or have little TMI conversations with other people until you get jealous of their sex lives.
You have to go on walks, exercise, and get your heart pumping. Because once your body’s senses are alert, you’re more receptive to the random slutty thoughts that cross your mind.
You need to read something smutty or watch a steamy movie. Or just lie in bed for a while and try to remember all the details of that exciting one night stand you had years ago.
I don’t know exactly what’s going to work for you - everyone’s sexual wiring is different.
But just going through the motions won’t work. If you’re sitting around hoping dirty thoughts pop into your head, they won’t.
So don’t just wait for your mojo to come back - go looking for it.
And maybe write that on a post-it note so you don’t forget.
Love,
Emma ❤
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