I’ve decided to do something a little different with my newsletter - I’m going to make it a little more personal.
I’ve been revealing a lot more of myself lately, and it’s been really fun. So, I want to get a little cozier and intimate with all of you, too.
I have a couple of naughty hobbies that I’ve been indulging in for a while. And this month I decided to share them publicly.
One is taking nudes.
It’s surprisingly hard work. It can be frustrating. I don’t even always get any shots that I like.
But there’s just something about it that makes me feel so fucking good.
I feel cute and confident when I’m posing. I feel really focused when I’m trying to get a good shot. And editing them puts me right in the zone.
Plus, it’s always nice to have good shots of my body I can look at if I need to feel better about myself.
My other naughty hobby is making audio porn.
This one is more difficult, but I love the challenge.
I don’t normally talk dirty during sex. Not much, anyway. I’m just way too shy to say a lot of things.
But put me in front of a mic and apparently I don’t have any problems with it at all.
I’ll masturbate, moan, breathe out a non-stop stream of dirty words, make myself come, and capture it all in an audio file.
I really enjoy being able to express that side of myself instead of stuffing it down because I feel too shy.
At first, I cringed at my recordings. And rightly so. They were… Not the best.
I knew making audio porn wouldn’t be easy, but I had no idea just how hard it would be!
But I kept practicing, and eventually I got a few recordings that I actually liked. When I listen to them, I can pick out all the flaws, all the things I would’ve done differently. Still, I thought they were kind of hot.
Hot enough to share, even.
So, that’s what I did. After thinking it over forever, relistening to the recordings more times than I should, and getting lots of reassurance from Mr. Austin that sharing audio of me moaning and masturbating wasn’t a terrible idea, I nervously posted two audio porn scenes to Patreon.
And I’m really glad I did. I was worried for nothing. I got plenty of positive feedback almost immediately.
I guess that made me feel bold because a few days later, I went through my folder of nude shots and picked out one of my favorites.
Now, my Friends With Benefits couldn’t just hear me come - they got to see my tits, too.
That was a big step I wanted to take for a really long time.
I love when people share their nudes online. I love knowing that people are creating audio porn and sharing it. I want people to express their sexiest selves without any shame or embarrassment.
I didn’t think I had the courage to join them and do it.
But now I did and it feels so liberating. I get to be exactly who I want to be, to show the things I feel like showing, to have the kind of fun I want to have - and whoever wants to come along for the ride with me can do it. It’s such a wonderful feeling.
Now, I just have to keep working on some new scripts and getting some fresh nudes!
And of course, I’ve been doing more than just masturbating on mic and sharing. I also managed to release a new episode of Pillow Talk and write a few articles this week, including a review of one of my new favorite toys!
I can’t say enough great things about the Dame Aer.
It’s not my first clit-sucking toy. It’s just the first one that makes me come - and makes me come really fucking hard.
I was going to review a few other toys before this one, but I couldn’t wait. I just had to tell all of you just how incredible it is.
I mean, it gave me the most intense orgasm I’ve ever experienced. Seriously.
Check out my review if you want to know exactly why I fell in love with it!
Spending most my time talking and thinking about sex is really fucking fun. I’m not gonna lie. This is a great job.
But it’s also incredibly frustrating. Because for all the pleasure, excitement, and thrill, I also encounter so many people who are really struggling.
And a lot of times, they’re struggling because they (or their partner) believes something about sex that just isn’t true.
I put together this list of some of the most common sex myths that cause problems in relationships. Some of them are subtle, some of them even sound like common sense, but they’re all false and harmful.
One of the things I do when I record audio porn that’s aimed at men is suck on a dildo.
I want the blowjobs to sound realistic and the best way to do that (other than asking Mr. Austin to stand still so I can blow him in front of the mic) is to lick and suck a dildo.
It really does work - it sounds so much better than pretending.
It also turns me on. Like, a lot. Giving head to a dildo always does.
That inspired me to share the story of how I became an artificial cocksucker and what makes it so arousing.
After writing more than 500 articles and releasing more than 50 podcast episodes all focused on sex, I’ve covered a huge number of topics.
But there’s one that keeps coming back in my life.
Ever since I wrote about phimosis, I’ve been getting regular emails and DMs from guys and couples who are dealing with it. And they all have questions about sex.
It’s not hard to find articles about phimosis online, but it isn’t easy to find some about how it really affects your sex life.
So, I decided to revisit the topic. I collected all the phimosis questions I get asked most often along with my answers to them.
My articles are behind a paywall, but all of the links in this section are Friend Links. That means you can read them for free - even without a Medium Membership!
My Pillow Talk Merch Is Finally Here!
I’m so excited because I finally got to see my merch in person!
Mr. Austin and I got a few shirts and a pillow. We’ll be doing a little photoshoot with them soon. But for now, I decided to snap a quick shot of myself wearing my pink Sex and Donuts shirt!
If you love the podcast, like my work, or are just really into eating donuts and getting it on, you can check out all the different shirt options, stickers, and pillows right here on the Pillow Talk merch store!
And if you get one, I’d love to see you in it! You can send it to us or tag me or Jake on social media!
If you want to get yourself a little something fun, here are some companies I love supporting!
I’m over the goddamn moon with the Dame Aer! It gave me a brand new, intense way to get off. It works so well it feels like it’s sucking the orgasms right out of my body. If you want to try one for yourself (and I highly recommend you do), you can get it from Betty’s Toy Box and use the code LOVEEMMA to save 10% on your order!
Have you heard of Bellesa House? Porn performers get to choose who they fuck and then bang them as if the cameras weren’t rolling. It’s some of the hottest, most authentic sex you can find online. You can check it out by signing up for Bellesa Films, a porn company run by women that features lots of fun, dirty sex with some of the hottest guys and gals.
I prepared for this week’s episode of Pillow Talk by watching plenty of wet, oily, and slippery massage porn! If you haven’t watched any, you’re missing out on a great mix of pleasurable rub-downs, glistening skin, and hardcore fucking. Fantasy Massage is my favorite site for X-rated massage action!
These are all affiliate links by the way. If you click them and make a purchase (or use one of my discount codes), I earn a small commission on the sale and you will be supporting my work.
Pillow Talk with Emma Austin
What's better than getting oiled up, rubbed down, and finished off?
This week, Jake and I talk about massage porn, what makes it so hot, and what we look for when picking out massage scenes.
I also talk about my new venture into audio porn, creating JOI for women, and sucking dildos for extra realism.
And: my system for reviewing sex toys, praise for The Rock, my tub full of lube fantasies, sexy sexy trickery, and how Jake could single-handedly disrupt the entire happy ending industry.
Check out the show notes for relevant links. And if you love the show, consider rating and reviewing it on Apple Podcasts or anywhere else!
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