Seriously, you need these toys đ
Hi!
My first sex toy was all wrong for me.
(Well, technically, it wasnât my first. But thatâs another story!)
It was a big, purple, sparkly vibrating dildo.
The size was too much for me. It felt really good on my clit, but the shape made it a little awkward to use.
I didnât know where to start. But even once I discovered toys I could get off with, I wasnât getting the most I could out of them.
There were so many types of pleasures and ways to come that I wasnât experiencing because I stuck to a single type of sex toy.
That changed this year.
Iâve reviewed a few sex toys since I started blogging and I tried out even more.
I got more sex toys over the last year than I had for the rest of my life. I lost track of how many I own, but I know itâs a lot.
And what I learned is that I was really missing out. There are so many interesting and satisfying ways to masturbate that I wasnât exploring because I didnât have the right toys.
So, this week I put together a list of the four sex toys I believe every woman should own, along with a personal recommendation for each type.
I also wrote about how to get off on your period when you donât like having period sex, what women really look for in a man, and what you should try instead of scheduling sex.
Enjoy!
Love,
Emma â¤
Treat Yourself
If you want to get yourself a little something fun, here are some companies I love supporting.
I left bondage gear out of my sex toy article, but itâs a big part of how I play. If you want to enjoy some kink, you need a good set of restraints. This one is my personal favorite. You can get it from Bettyâs Toy Box - use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout to save 10% on your entire order.
My fellow Canadians can also get it from Naughty North. The code LOVEEMMA will get you 10% on your entire order from them, too.
Lately, Iâve been really into the girl-on-girl videos from Girlsway. Itâs got the pleasure and playfulness I look for in porn. You can use the code LOVEEMMA to get access to it and everything else on Adult Time at 20% off on your 30-day membership.
These are all affiliate links by the way. If you click them and make a purchase (or use one of my discount codes), I earn a small commission on the sale and you will be supporting my work.
My Latest Medium Posts
These are the articles I published this week on Medium. They're all Friend Links so you can read them for free, even without a Medium Membership.
New From Love, Emma
Choking is one of those things that always turned me off. I knew that some women were into it, but I just couldnât imagine ever enjoying it. I hate having anything tight around my neck and a hand on the throat just didnât seem sexy to me.
And then one night, I found myself practically begging for it.
In this piece from my blog Love, Emma I tell the story of how I got into being choked, the different kinds of sexual choking, and what most women want when they say they want to be choked.
Pillow Talk with Emma Austin
We skipped this week, but weâll be back soon!
Until then, hereâs one from our archives. We talk about making porn a part of your relationship, our favorite types of porn, why porn privacy is better than porn secrecy, that time I caught Jake watching porn (and the reason he never caught me!)
Check out the show notes for relevant links. And if you love the show, consider rating and reviewing it on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Podchaser, or anywhere else!
Something Spicy
Thereâs one type of sex toy I havenât had the chance to review yet - a sex robot!
Someday, hopefully. A girl can dream!
Hereâs an erotic story where I explore what robo-sex might be look like.
After six years of marriage, I didn't think Neil could still surprise me.
But boy was I wrong.
When Neil buys a robot for me, everything changes.
I never thought I'd ever want to sleep with a machine. But it has all these features and I can't help but wonder how much it can do.
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