Ready for your glow up? ☀
Hi!
There’s never a wrong time for a glow up.
But it feels extra satisfying after a breakup.
I’m not super hot and sexy or anything like that. But compared to Emma at 16, I’m a goddamn princess.
That was the year of oversized hoodies and thinking foundation was the only makeup I needed.
All that ended when the first guy I loved broke my heart.
After that, I started dyeing my hair, accentuating my curves, and using makeup to do more than just make me look washed out.
Looking better made me feel better. Choosing a new style made me feel like I was discovering who I really was.
A broken heart can really fuck you up. But a glow up can have you coming back out of it stronger, better, and ready to get more out of life.
This week, I wrote a little guide on how to glow up.
It’s not just about wearing better clothes and figuring out the hair that works for you - it’s also about sex, self-care, and emotional growth. But mostly, it’s about loving the new you.
I also wrote an article on how to raise your libido.
I used to be able to go months without wanting sex. Now, I texted my husband just this morning to tell him we should fuck outside on the deck.
I like the hornier version of me better, so I put together all my best tips for getting your libido off the floor so you can crave getting on your knees.
And I wrote an article on how to show quiet enthusiasm during sex.
Whenever I write about how much I love loud sex, vocal sex, and guys moaning, I hear from people who either don’t want to make a lot of sound during sex or can’t get off if they’re being noisy.
I’ve had bad quiet sex and I’ve had incredible quiet sex. I wanted to help all the quiet fucks out there so they can have the latter.
And this week on the Pillow Talk podcast, Jake and I go back in the closet to talk about the sounds of sex!
We cover dirty talk, phone sex, and the first time I recorded myself having an orgasm (well, two actually).
Enjoy!
Love,
Emma ❤
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My Latest Medium Posts
These are the articles I published this week on Medium. They're all Friend Links so you can read them for free, even without a Medium Membership.
From Love, Emma
I keep seeing tweets by people who can’t get motivated anymore and have a hard time keeping to their exercise routines.
And every time I ask myself “have they tried watching porn?”
I know it might seem like I recommend porn for everything, but that’s because it works. My most intense workouts are my porn workouts and that’s not a coincidence.
In this post from my blog Love, Emma, I talk about how porn helps me go harder.
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Pillow Talk with Emma Austin
This week, we're back in the closet and talking about the sounds of sex.
I talk about my formative experiences with aural sex, how Jake found his way to talking dirty, and why I have to be forced into it.
I also tell the topsy-turvy, frustrating, and cringey story about the first time I had phone sex (which I should probably regret but really don't).
Something Spicy
If you read my review of Feel Good Filth, you know that I’m into the whole daddy thing.
It represents everything I love in a man. Confident and caring. Giving and in charge. And ideally, a nice beard and a mature sense of style.
Here’s an erotic story I wrote about a daddy - specifically, about a best friend’s dad.
Come on, admit it. You’ve fantasized about it, too!
Seducing My Best Friend's Daddy
She calls him her “daddy,” but tonight he’s mine.
Tina warned me to be careful around her dad.
He’s got a wandering eye. And he and his wife have an “arrangement.”
I don’t want to do anything to jeopardize my friendship with Tina.
I know it’s wrong. He’s more than twice my age. But if we’re ever alone, I don’t know that I could resist.
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