Porn makes it look so easy 💦
Hi!
Sometimes, sex is incredibly easy.
Every touch feels electrifying. That tongue work makes you moan and come like crazy. And you get fucked hard into a big, powerful finish that satisfy you for days.
Other times, though, it’s a lot more work than that.
You keep trying for that huge orgasm - or any orgasm - and you just can’t get it.
You get to the edge of a climax, but it’s like your body is stopping you from going over it.
It could be for any reason at all.
You’re too stressed.
You can’t focus.
Your body isn’t as receptive as it normally is.
The stimulation just isn’t quite right.
You’re putting too much pressure on yourself to come.
It could be anything. And it’s frustrating as hell.
It doesn’t mean you can’t do anything about it. There’s almost always a way to get over the edge and achieve that orgasm you’ve been working so hard for. But you need the right approach.
The best thing to help you get there (other than a sex toy with just the right vibrations) is a patient partner who can take the right steps to help you be at ease, get back some of the horniness you lost in the struggle, and help you come really fucking hard.
I’ve been in that situation more times than I can count and I decided it was my duty to help every other lady who’s stuck and needs their partner to pull out some advanced level moves to bring her to a climax.
So, this week, I wrote an article geared to men who want to help their lady come when none of the usual tricks work.
I also gave advice on how to have sex when it’s too fucking hot to fuck, discussed the biggest parts of sex that you never see in porn, and wrote about why gratitude makes such a huge difference in relationships.
And I loaded up Netflix and watched 365 Days with the intention of defending it, but I just couldn’t. I don’t mind the consent issues in it at all - it’s the other issues that kept me from recommending it.
On the Pillow Talk podcast, Jake and I play a dirty version of Never Have I Ever and talk about everything from faked orgasms to ladies sticking Sharpies in their asses.
Enjoy!
Love,
Emma ❤
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My Latest Medium Posts
These are the articles I published this week on Medium. They're all Friend Links so you can read them for free, even without a Medium Membership.
From Love, Emma
It’s officially summer, which means I’m officially wishing I had more places to fuck outdoors.
I miss fucking in forests, on backyard trampolines, or parking on a quiet roadside so for some fresh air and quick fun.
Sadly, those days are over for me. It’s just not worth the risk. But at least I have my private patio and access to lots of nature porn.
My favorite nature porn is by Molly and Conor Pills, who go by Horny Hiking. Check out my review if you want to learn more about it (or if you just want to sneak a peek at Molly’s gorgeous ass and tits).
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Pillow Talk with Emma Austin
How well do you know your partner's sexual past?
This week, we find out by playing a dirty version of Never Have I Ever.
Along the way, we talk about the times we've both injured ourselves masturbating, the woman we affectionately know as "butt Sharpie lady," I rave about my favorite new sex toy, and I reveal how I watch porn.
Something Spicy
I think every submissive person has a thing for authority figures. In fact, that’s one of the things I loved about going to university - I had a lot of really hot professors.
I followed all the instructions on the syllabus to the letter. I handed in my assignments early. I edited my work thoroughly.
I think my professors could tell I was a really good student.
But I fantasized about them treating me like a good girl.
Here’s a little something from my horny imagination.
Spanked by My Pedantic Professor
Madame Delacroix is really strict when it comes to the rules. If I make any grammatical mistakes on my paper, she calls me into her office.
She isn’t like my other professors. She’s not afraid to teach me a lesson.
And she knows I’m going to love every second of it.
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