Masturbate to save your marriage 👩🏫😉
Hi!
Lots of couples in long-term relationships have mismatched sex drives.
In fact, I’d be willing to bet most of them do.
Because it’s pretty rare for two people’s desire for sex to line up perfectly. Even when it does, it’s not usually permanent. Sooner or later, it all goes out of whack and you’ve got to figure out how to deal with that.
And honestly, it’s not as tough as you might think it would be.
I mean yeah, lots of people struggle with it. I did too.
But there doesn’t need to be all this tension because of it. There are things you can do that will make your relationship a heck of a lot more chill.
Like keeping the nonsexual intimacy going.
Flirting even when there’s no boning on the horizon - that’s an important one.
Treating the mismatch like one of your relationship quirks instead of a problem that needs to be fixed - that’s going to help too.
And so will masturbating as much as you damn please.
You’d think that wouldn’t be an issue, but hoo boy it sure can be. Because if you’re not careful, your mismatched sex drives can add all sorts of baggage to your solo activities.
The high libido partner can start resenting it. They get upset at having to masturbate instead of fucking to their heart’s content. Making themselves come to iPhone porn starts to feel less like a hobby and more like being in the doghouse.
The low libido partner can start feeling guilty for touching themselves. Like it’s wrong to have a little bit of one-handed playtime when they haven’t been putting out.
And that’s a bogus situation, because it just makes everything worse.
It spoils everyone’s fun. And that’s really all masturbation should be. Not shameful. Not upsetting. Not frustrating. Just a damn good time.
It fucks up your chances of fucking, too. It puts all this extra pressure on having sex that really has no business being there. And let me tell you from personal experience, nothing ruins your sex drive quite like pressure.
So yeah, that’s one of my biggest tips for dealing with uneven sex drives. Just go ahead and masturbate as much as you want. Really romance yourself and enjoy every second of it. Get rid of the guilt, the resentment, and all that nonsense - all they’re going to do is ruin your orgasms.
You’re probably going to get yourself off a lot more often than you have sex - even if you’re the one with the lower libido.
But that’s perfectly okay. And it could very well be the thing that saves your relationship.
Love,
Emma ❤
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