It doesn't take much to be amazing in bed 🤩🔥
Hi!
I don’t have a clear image of a guy who’s good at sex.
When I think of a sex god, he can be practically anything.
He could be a hot hipster covered in tattoos.
He could be a complete and total dork.
He could be a really casual guy who doesn’t stand out much when he’s in a crowd.
That’s because none of that really matters when it comes to having incredible sex.
What does matter is two simple qualities. Two qualities that make sex passionate, multiply the orgasms, and make a guy into a sex god.
This week, I wrote about these two qualities and why every guy should work on developing them.
I also wrote about:
Reasons you might want to watch porn. Porn is entertaining and can help you get off, but it’s also so much more. I turn to porn often, and it’s not always because I’m horny. It can be fun, educational, or even therapeutic.
How to figure out your condom size. I’ve met guys who insist on using large condoms because it would bruise their egos to do otherwise. Getting a size too small can be a problem, too. Either way, you’re reducing its effectiveness. Thankfully, there’s a simple way to figure out your proper condom size.
Signs that you’re dealing with a fuckgirl. There is a lot of talk about fuckbois, and rightly so. They seem to be everywhere, they’ll leave you all kinds of messed up, and no one should be manipulating their way into someone’s pants. But we don’t usually talk about fuckgirls. They may not be as common, but they can be just as toxic. If you date women, you should know what to watch out for.
The Lush 2. I have a major kink for remote control sex toys. I love control play, and there’s really no better way to make that happen than by giving my partner literal control over my pussy. The only problem is that a lot of remote controlled sex toys are disappointing. The Lush 2 isn’t. It’s the perfect toy for getting dirty, no matter how far apart you are.
And on this week’s episode of the Pillow Talk podcast, Jake and I talk about getting naked. I was never comfortable enough to undress in front of anyone and I Winnie the Pooh’d my way through sex for years. I finally got over it and I share my tips for getting naked in front of your partner even if you’re self-conscious.
Enjoy!
Love,
Emma ❤
Treat Yourself
If you want to get yourself a little something fun, here are some companies I love supporting.
If you’re submissive, want to do something naughty in public, or just plain love surprises, you should definitely own a remote controlled sex toy. My favorite by far is the Lush 2 by Lovense. It’s app-controlled, reliable, and so much fun to play with.
When I want to get a little titillation, I’ll usually go to OnlyFans. When I want to see a kink or a sex toy in action, I’ll go to Pornhub. But when I want to really get turned on and get myself off, I go to to Adult Time. They have so much quality porn in so many different genres. If you want to see it for yourself, use the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on your 30-day membership.
Want to stick your dick in something that feels really fucking good? Try the Pink Lady Stamina Trainer by Fleshlight. Mr. Austin uses this one almost every single day and swears by it. If you’re in Canada, you can get yours from Naughty North - use the code LOVEEMMA to get 10% off your entire order.
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My Latest Medium Posts
These are the articles I published this week on Medium. They're all Friend Links so you can read them for free, even without a Medium Membership.
From Love, Emma
I’m always high when I have sex. It’s mostly by coincidence - I’m a medical cannabis user so I just happen to be high whenever I fuck.
But I don’t think I’ll ever go back. Even if I didn’t need the weed anymore, I’d still vape or take edibles before sex. It makes everything feel so much better and the orgasms are even stronger when I’m high.
In this piece from my blog Love, Emma, I go over what you need to know if you want to use cannabis to make the sex you’re having even better.
Pillow Talk with Emma Austin
Are you comfortable being naked?
I mean, really comfortable?
I'll be honest, I'm not quite there yet. But I've made a lot of progress and I'm working on it!
This week, I share my tips for getting comfortable undressing in front of your partner (or even a camera)!
Along the way, Jake and I talk about motivational donuts, my sadly untouched boobs, Winnie the Poohing your way through sex, why Pornhub comments are safer than Twitter, and how I finally conquered my naked nemesis - Shawn the digital clock.
Check out the show notes for relevant links. And if you love the show, consider rating and reviewing it on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Podchaser, or anywhere else!
Something Spicy
If there are two things that turn me on, it’s forbidden lust and first time experiences.
That’s why I keep coming back to fauxcest porn and get so into virgin roleplay.
In this erotic story, I explore a different scenario that gets at those same kinks.
Shawn has been Sam’s best friend since high school, but they’ve never crossed this line before.
After a string of bad hookups, Sam is looking for a guy who can really satisfy her.
Shawn is almost the perfect candidate. There’s only one problem: he’s gay and just as boy crazy as Sam is.
Shawn is spending the weekend with Sam, and she’s going to see just how far she can convince him to go with a woman for the very first time.
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So many great updates, so much fun! Emma's articles are like Lay's potato chips, you just can't read just one! :)