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Hi!
Most relationships don’t take nosedives. It’s a lot more gradual than that.
Over time, you stop doing the little things.
But it’s the little things that count the most.
One of those little things is complimenting each other.
It’s really typical for couples to shower each other with compliments at the start of the relationship and then rarely say a sweet word when they’ve really settled down.
That’s how it was for me.
Giving my husband compliments felt silly.
He knew what I liked about him, so I didn’t see the point in repeating it.
You can probably guess how that went.
We hit a real slump in our marriage. It wasn’t like we hated each other, resented each other, or couldn’t stand each other.
But the spark was gone.
We might have been better together, but we weren’t helping each other be our best selves.
Looking back, I think the compliments had a lot to do with that.
There was so much emotional power in those simple little words. That’s why it’s so important for couples to keep the compliments going, and to do it daily.
I don’t want to call this a trick or a hack. It’s more essential than that. It’s a part of every happy, healthy relationship.
If you can’t remember the last time you gave your partner a really good compliment, it’s been too long. The next time you think her hair looks great and her tits look amazing, tell her. If you just want to stare because he looks so hot when he rolls up his sleeves, let him know. It makes a bigger difference than you think.
This week, I wrote about why couples should make compliments a daily habit, how to turn a guy on, and why I want to date a woman (and why it might never happen).
I also tackled the very important subject of why it’s okay (and probably really fun) to fuck partial sex dolls.
And I had to skip podcasting this week because I spent my whole recording day building a little sound booth for my office out of PVC pipes and soundproof blankets.
But it’s done now, so there will be more episodes coming shortly!
Enjoy!
Love,
Emma ❤
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My Latest Medium Posts
These are the articles I published this week on Medium. They're all Friend Links so you can read them for free, even without a Medium Membership.
From Love, Emma
Want a little peek into my personal spank bank?
I still masturbate to some of the hottest moments I’ve had with my exes, even though I’m in a relationship.
It’s something you should do without guilt and shame. Here’s a post from my blog Love, Emma about why some of my memories turn me the fuck on and why I can embrace that.
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Pillow Talk with Emma Austin
Building a little recording booth for my office took more time than I expected, so we didn’t get to record an episode for this week.
If you’d still like to listen to us, you can check out our episode about sex dolls. Well, specifically, our plans and fantasies involving sex dolls.
I tell Jake how I would play with a sex doll if I had one, we talk about the challenges with storing one, and we discuss a sex doll porn film we watched together.
Something Spicy
One of my articles this week was about sex doll torsos, pocket pussies, and other partial artificial ladies.
But what about a life-sized, fully functional sex robot?
Now we’re talking.
This is an erotic story I wrote about a woman who discovers that even though a robot can’t feel, it can still make you feel just right.
After six years of marriage, I didn't think Neil could still surprise me.
But boy was I wrong.
When Neil buys a robot for me, everything changes.
I never thought I'd ever want to sleep with a machine. But it has all these features and I can't help but wonder how much it can do.
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