I hope you guys like things a little kinky, because things are going to get a little kinky.
When I started writing, a lot of people found me through my writing on sexual challenges.
Guys who struggled with phimosis or were dating someone who had it found me through my article about being married to Mr. Austin and his super tight foreskin.
Quite a few women found me because they’re dealing with vaginismsus and I’ve shared my story of overcoming it.
Those posts still get a fair amount of action. But lately, my most popular posts have been about kink.
It kind of caught me off guard because I don’t really think of myself as a BDSM blogger.
I’m not really part of the kink community. I have a playroom instead of a dungeon. And I’m too squeamish for a lot of the hardcore fetishes.
But I am still sexually submissive in my own way.
I’m a middle with a thing for daddy doms.
I love being blindfolded and tied down and pleasured until I can barely take it anymore.
I have positive and playful humiliation fantasies and I get off on specific kinds of sexual embarrassment.
I also have a really big thing for praise. It’s honestly one of my biggest turn-ons.
And for whatever reason, my writing about it seems to have resonated with some people.
So, I’m going to let myself explore that a little more going forward.
I’m still going to write about blowjobs, give pussy eating advice, and rave about really good anal porn.
But maybe I won’t be so shy about posting the occasional kink article now and then.
I’ve also been getting a little kinkier on Patreon. Well, not kinky exactly, but I have been starting to treat my Friends With Benefits a lot more like Friends With Benefits. Or at least, friends who get to witness my sex life a little more closely.
It started with audio porn. Then I got to posting nudes.
I even decided to record me trying out a toy I was reviewing and posted the audio.
This week, I’m going to take it even one step further. I just recorded a bonus episode of the Pillow Talk podcast where I give Jake some sexual stimulation.
I have no idea how it will go or how well it will be received. But it was a hell of a lot of fun to record!
Maybe it’s the summer starting to creep in and putting me in a better mood. Maybe my meds are finally starting to give me the balance I need. Maybe it just took me this long to embrace myself.
Whatever it is, I don’t feel like holding back as much anymore.
And it feels really, really fucking good.
Life’s too short not to be yourself, you know?
I Hit 30K on Medium and Celebrated With an Irrelevant Selfie
When I started writing on Medium, I dreamed of hitting a big follower count.
I figured if I kept at it long enough, I’d hit 10k.
Then earlier this year I got all the way up to 20k.
And to my surprise, it kept climbing. For some reason, it kept going even after the peeps behind the scenes at Medium stopped distributing my articles.
(That’s right, my articles are just too hot for Medium 😎)
This week, I hit 30k followers!
I was too busy to celebrate properly, though, so I did what any girl with a big announcement and an Instagram account does - I posted an unrelated selfie.
This Week’s New Articles
Step one to making things a little kinkier is to write a brand new kink article.
I’ve written about my praise kink before, but I felt like something was missing.
I tried to explain why it turned me on and what it’s like to have one. But I didn’t go into details about what kinds of things you can do to use praise during sex.
Today, I tried to make up for that by posting my best tips for satisfying a girl with a praise kink and making her feel like a very good girl.
Guys and gals often find themselves in a really frustrating position.
The guys want to give the girls lots of big, satisfying orgasms.
And you bet your ass the girls want to experience those strong, breath-taking, mindblowing climaxes.
But they have a hard time getting there.
Sometimes, it’s because the guy isn’t really trying. Sometimes it’s because she just plain struggles to get off.
Most of the time, though, it’s because of a few simple misunderstandings. Five of them, to be specific.
I wanted to clear the air and help my fellow ladies come really hard. So, I shared the five things most guys get wrong about giving women really powerful orgasms.
I also got to play with a type of sex toy I’ve never tried before - a squirting dildo!
I used to think of them as a porn toy - the kind of thing you see in amateur videos but that you wouldn’t need if you weren’t filming anything.
But I changed my mind.
At some point, I started to realize just how fun it would be to live out all sorts of come-tastic fantasties!
For some people, that might be facials. It might be getting tits blasted with spunk. Or maybe wrapping your lips around the head of a silicone cock and feeling it fill your mouth.
For me, it’s straight up creampies.
The thought of getting fucked until my pussy gets filled with come is hot as hell.
I wanted to see if simulating it would be exciting, too.
And yeah, turns out it is!
I reviewed the Betty’s Blaster and gave a lot more details about my very first solo creampie.
I Got Interviewed on Betty’s Buzz!
Betty’s Toy Box is my favorite sex shop! It’s the first place I go to when I need to order anything naughty.
So, when they asked if I’d be willing to answer a few questions, I was more than happy to do so!
They asked me about what I enjoy most about my job, how to handle the sex talk with kids, and to share a little known fact about me!
If you want to get yourself a little something fun, here are some companies I love supporting!
If you want to give yourself a climax with a creampie or do some threesome roleplay that ends with a messy cumshot, you’re going to need a squirting dildo! I’ve been playing with the Betty’s Blaster and I love it! It vibrates, has some nice veiny texture, and shoots its load at the press of a button! Get it from Betty’s Toy Box and use the code LOVEEMMA to save 15% on your entire order!
One other thing you might need to satisfy your subby lady’s praise kink is a good set of restraints. Because there’s nothing like being tied down and edged and praised until you can’t take it anymore. Mr. Austin’s favorite way to strap me down is with the Under the Bed Restraint System by Sportsheets. Get it from Naughty Betty’s and use the code LOVEEMMA to save 15% on any kinky items you want to order!
And if you’re in the mood for playful solo play that turns into unexpected hardcore action, definitely check out Caught Fapping. Every scene features a guy or gal getting caught wanking and then getting even naughtier. Use my affiliate link to get a discounted price and use the code LOVEEMMA to get a free week!
These are all affiliate links by the way. If you click them and make a purchase (or use one of my discount codes), I earn a small commission on the sale and you will be supporting my work.
Pillow Talk with Emma Austin
Big dicks can be really challenging, but they need some love too!
We cover extra tight anal, girthy blowjobstacles, and when deep pounding gets a little too deep for comfort.
Also: dick prints, becoming a sushi whore, terrible vegan jerky, and cucking Jake with billionnaires!
Check out the show notes for relevant links. And if you love the show, consider rating and reviewing it on Apple Podcasts or anywhere else!
New for My Friends With Benefits!
This week, I tried a little something different on Patreon.
Instead of just writing a review of the Betty’s Blaster, I also recorded a ramblefap review.
My Friends With Benefits got to hear me use the toy, give my first impressions of it, and the messy little orgasm I gave myself at the end.
And in a few days, they can also hear the new bonus episode of the Pillow Talk podcast. This one’s going to be a bit naughty and involve some sex toys as well!
If you want to hear my ramblefap review and get access to my audio porn, bonus episodes of Pillow Talk, and the occasional shot of my bare tits, head on over to our Patreon and become one of my Friends With Benefits!
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