Is there a kind of orgasm you never thought you could experience?
For a lot of women, it’s anal orgasms. No matter how hard they try to get off from it, they need more than ass-play to come.
For others, it’s nipple orgasms. It’s just not stimulating enough to get them even close to a climax.
For me, it was cervical orgasms.
I felt like I could have just about every kind of orgasm there is. Except that one - it was just too painful.
I’ve had some very uncomfortable experiences with cervical stimulation. So, I assumed it was a no-go zone. I just wasn’t one of the women who could find it pleasurable.
So when I saw tips on how to get a cervical orgasm, I would just ignore them. Those weren’t for me.
But I was wrong. Holy fuck was I ever wrong.
It turns out, I’ve actually been experiencing cervical orgasms for a while now. Not only that, but I have been loving the hell out of them.
Cervical stimulation is still really fucking intense - but in a good way.
It gives me a kind of pleasure that feels deeper than anything else I can experience.
And it results in powerful orgasms that I can feel through my entire body.
It’s so amazing that I’m no longer skipping past the cervical orgasm tips. I even decided to give some of my own.
This week, I wrote about how to give your partner the kind of pleasure she can only get when you go really deep.
I also decided to put together all the advanced sex moves that a guy should know if he wants to blow a lady’s mind.
These are the ones you use when you want to do more than just rub and lick her pussy.
They’re the ones that will make her impatient to fuck you again.
And even though some of them take practice, they’re all pretty easy to pull off.
Speaking of easy ways to get a woman off, I decided to revisit the way I used to make myself come before I started buying vibrators.
My first sex toy wasn’t really a sex toy. It was a pillow. I’d slide it between my thighs and hump it until I’d hit my peak and have an orgasm.
I recently tried it again and it completely holds up. So, I decided to write about it and share a step by step breakdown of how to masturbate with a pillow.
This week, instead of reviewing a product, I reviewed seven!
I really like arousal oils as a way to deal with my low sex drive, my cockblocking anxiety, and all sorts of nonsense that keeps me from having as much sex as I want.
But I especially love using them when I’m already in the mood. That’s when they make me feel extra hot, extra wet, and pantingly horny. And there’s no better feeling than that.
So, I tried seven different arousal oils and gels to find out which ones could help me overcome my libido struggles and have a lot more good dirty fun.
And this week on the Pillow Talk podcast, Jake and I talk about app-controlled sex toys - why I’ve always fantasized about them, my favorite ones, and how we use them.
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I Just Released My Very First Audio Porn!
I’ve been a very big fan of audio porn for a while now. So, I guess it was only a matter of time before I turned on the mic and recorded some of my own.
Last night, I released my very first audio porn scenes - complete with real masturbation and orgasms!
The first is a JOI aimed at women. I get on Skype and I guide you through a mutual masturbation session. (Listen to a sample here.)
The other was recorded with the guys in mind. I’m a virgin who thinks it’s finally time to have her first fuck - you got me so horny and I just want to give myself over to you. (Click here for a clip.)
If you want to hear the full versions, head over to my Patreon page and become one of my Friends With Benefits!
A Personal Favorite
Have you ever heard a term that just spoke to you? A few simple words that made you feel like you finally understood something about yourself.
For me, it was “praise kink.”
There are a lot of labels that fit my sexuality - submissive, middle, bisexual. But none of them does a better job of explaining exactly what really turns me on and gets me off than praise.
If you want to get yourself a little something fun, here are some companies I love supporting!
After trying out seven different arousal products, there were two clear winners. My favorites were the Lip Tease Kissable Clitoral Stimulant and the Oh Gee G-Spot Gel. They both turned me on and made me feel very, very good. If you want to try them, get them from Betty’s Toy Box and use the code LOVEEMMA to save 10% on your entire order!
What’s better than a blowjob? A blowjob that tastes like candy! Jo makes some of the best flavored lubes I’ve ever tasted, and their Candy Shop series is my favorite - especially the butterscotch flavor! If you want to taste them for yourself, you can get them from Naughty North and use the code LOVEEMMA to save 10% on your entire order!
I’m currently doing some research for an upcoming podcast episode. And by “research” I mean watching lots of massage porn. The best scenes are on Fantasy Massage - it’s always hot, super slippery, and sometimes a little taboo. You can get full access to it by signing up for Adult Time and using the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on your 30-day membership!
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Pillow Talk with Emma Austin
I've always fantasized about using remote controlled sex toys.
Now, I finally have the toys to make them come true!
This week, we talk about the app-controlled toys we use, why they're so fun to play with, and what kind of naughty things we've done with them!
We also discuss hybrid lube, the hot married man paradox, being a sexual scatterbrain, and my confusing refractory window.
Check out the show notes for relevant links. And if you love the show, consider rating and reviewing it on Apple Podcasts or anywhere else!
New Friends With Benefits Episode!
This week, my Friends With Benefits got access to a bonus episode of the Pillow Talk podcast where Jake tells me about his own little sexperiment. While I was busy messing around with arousal oils, he was using stimulating gels and wanking a’plenty.
If you want to hear it (and get two bonus Pillow Talk episodes every month), head on over to our Patreon and become one of our Friends With Benefits!
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