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I don’t think most people understand just how important foreplay is.
Foreplay is incredibly fun and pleasurable - a night with nothing but foreplay can be amazingly hot!
I mean, you’re getting each other off with your hands and mouths (and tits if you roll that way). What’s not to love?
It’s also a great way to warm up to sex. Even when I’m down to fuck, I need some action before my body is ready for it.
But over the years, I’ve seen that it makes a huge difference to the sex itself.
It’s just better with a lot of foreplay.
Great foreplay makes every touch more stimulating. It makes every thrust even more intense. It makes the orgasms explosive.
On top of that, it melts away your inhibitions.
You get to fuck the way you really want to - the way you fuck in your fantasies. Dirty, nasty, primal, and worth putting directly into your spank bank.
This week, I shared 15 foreplay tips that you can use to drive her absolutely wild, make her come like crazy, and leave her craving more.
I also wrote about:
Plenty of reasons to watch porn. I love discussions about porn, but I keep running into the assumption that porn is frivolous. And it can be (well, if you think pleasure is frivolous). You might just use it to entertain yourself while you masturbate. But it can also be so much more. This article shares all the reasons I use porn and why I take it so seriously as a subject.
Creampies and cumshots. My attitude to come has changed a lot over the years. From being indifferent to come, to being a little obsessed with it, and finally to finding a comfortable place for it in my fantasies. This is the story of why my attitudes changed and how I discovered come could be so hot.
The Coital Alignment Technique. If you read about sex enough, one of the claims you’ll see most often is that women can’t come from penetration alone. There’s one method that can fix that.
Men’s underwear. Women have a lot of options when they want to dress up for sex. There’s lacy outfits, teddies, baby dolls, fishnet and sheer materials, crotchless panties, and a whole world of lingerie for us to choose from. Men’s choices are a little more limited - but there are still some options that will turn a lady on.
Yumming yucks. I’m relieved that so many people are becoming sex positive and growing more accepting of kinks and fetishes. There’s still some work to do, though, because there’s pressure to try sex acts even when you’re not turned on by them.
Losing your virginity without pain. My first time was an incredibly pleasurable experience. No pain, no discomfort, nothing but pure euphoria. That’s how it should be for everyone, so I wanted to share my tips on having pain-free sex even if it’s your first time.
And this week on the Pillow Talk podcast, we talk about sexy costumes! I share the ones I’ve worn, Jake talks about his one and only time, and we speculate about other options.
Enjoy!
Love,
Emma ❤
The Pillow Talk Patreon Is Live!
Jake and I love doing the Pillow Talk podcast and we’ve been wowed by how successful it’s been!
Our weekly episodes are so much fun to create and interacting with our listeners has been so fulfilling. But we wanted to do more and be able to devote even more time to it.
So for the last few weeks, we’ve been putting together some exclusive content for all of you!
Today, we finally launched the Pillow Talk Patreon page!
If you head on over and become one of our Friends With Benefits, you’ll get:
Two exclusive episodes every month (released on the 1st and the 15th)
Exclusive posts (updates, selfies, behind the scenes shots, polls, and whatever else)
A little more access to us (leave a comment!)
The first Friends With Benefits episode is already up. We talk about tickling during sex and how it was so much hotter than either of us anticipated!
Treat Yourself
If you want to get yourself a little something fun, here are some companies I love supporting.
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When people talk about sex toys, they usually mean those designed to pleasure pussies. But cocks need pampering, too! By far the coolest ones are designed by Tenga, like the Tenga Spinners that twist while they stroke. Get one from Betty’s Toy Box and use the code LOVEEMMA to save 10% on your entire order!
If you want to fuck yourself in a really fancy way, you’ve got to try a sex machine. They can seriously level up your solo penetrative play, make your threesome roleplay more vivid, and make you feel extra subby during control play. I have the Hismith Table Top 2 Premium Sex Machine and it really delivers! Get it directly from Hismith and use the code HSM10 to save 10% on your order and get a free spring attachment!
These are all affiliate links by the way. If you click them and make a purchase (or use one of my discount codes), I earn a small commission on the sale and you will be supporting my work.
My Latest Medium Posts
These are the articles I published this week on Medium. They're all Friend Links so you can read them for free, even without a Medium Membership.
From Love, Emma
Sometimes, I talk as if a dominant personality is something you either have or not. But that’s not quite true. Sexual domination is a skill, and one that most people can learn.
This piece from my blog Love, Emma is about how to tap into your dominant side, even if you don’t think you have one.
Pillow Talk with Emma Austin
Are you getting dressed up for Halloween?
This week, Jake and I talk about being big fans of sexy costumes, which ones I've worn, and the one and only time he's worn one.
We also talk about macrodosing shrooms, why sexy doesn't always mean skimpy, slowly assembling a schoolgirl outfit, lumberjack ax play, and pumpkin dick.
Check out the show notes for relevant links. And if you love the show, consider rating and reviewing it on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Podchaser, or anywhere else!
Something Spicy
The babysitter fantasy is a huge one for me. Grown men who are attractive, responsible, and not scared of commitment? Sign me up!
It just made sense for my first erotic novella to be about a babysitter who has her way with the man of the house.
Nina has a thing for older men. And she’s got the hots for one in particular, Greg Thompson.
There’s only one problem. Greg is Nina’s boss.
Oh, and he’s married.
But working under him is the perfect opportunity for Nina to get closer to Greg and make him realize she’s exactly what he needs.
They fall madly in love, but will Greg ever be ready to leave his loveless marriage? Will Nina get her Happily Ever After with the man of her dreams or will she be left to pick up the pieces of her broken heart?
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