Being a tease isn't such a bad thing 😉🔥


Anticipation is such an incredible feeling. It fills you with so much vitality and desire.

Waiting for something that you know is going to be really good just makes it even better.

That’s why I can’t get enough of teasing.

Teasing back and forth with someone is a great way to feel connected to them.

It somehow makes flirting sweeter and more seductive at the same time.

It makes the foreplay feel incredibly intense and makes your partner seem irresistible.

And it turns me the fuck on.

All that arousal leads to more playful sex and stronger orgasms. Every single time.

If you want better sex, adding more teasing is a really great way to do it. So, this week I decided to share my favorite types of sexual teasing.

Hopefully it inspires you to take things slow and let them build up to a mindblowing finish.

I also wanted to share some recommendations for a sexier 2021.

Since I started blogging about sex, I’ve been finding new ways to enjoy it more and more.

If you’re stuck in a rut, want to experiment a little, or want to get more pleasure, try a few of these things for yourself.

One of my recommendations is to get some better porn. And the best way to do that is to pay for it.

That’s not just because you get to watch the exact kind you want, but also because full porn scenes are different than the clips you find on tube sites.

I wrote about the five biggest difference I’ve noticed since I started paying for access to full-length porn.

I also wrote about an amazing toy that I’ve been playing with recently.

It’s called the Fantasy For Her - Her Ultimate Pleasure, and it’s basically a pussy pump combined with a mechanical tongue.

When those two features work together, it creates some incredible, intense stimulation that I did my best to capture in words.

And on the new episode of the Pillow Talk podcast, Jake and I talk about how ADHD affects our sex life. We’ve both got it and it messes with our dopamine function, our planning abilities, and focus - but it had complete opposite effects on our sex drives.



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Treat Yourself

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Seriously, the Fantasy For Her is wild. It’s a vibrator that knows how to hit your G-spot on one end, and a pussy pump that can also lick your clit on the other. If you want to try it out (and you should!), you can get it from Betty’s Toy Box and use the code LOVEEMMA to save 10% on your entire order!

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Pillow Talk with Emma Austin

This episode is all over the place because we're all over the place.

And that's because we have ADHD. Yep, both of us.

Because of it, we're easily distracted, disorganized, and prone to screwing up. But there's one way it affects us differently. Being so unfocused messes with my arousal quite a bit. For Jake, it's the opposite. 

This week, we talk about the ways ADHD affects our sex life, being dopamine junkies, and how to fight the odds and get horny anyway.

We also mention day sex, killing our succulents, that time Jake went so hard he ended up with a swollen dick, and some very successful double penetration.

Check out the show notes for relevant links. And if you love the show, consider rating and reviewing it on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Podchaser, or anywhere else!

New Exclusive Posts

This week, my Friends With Benefits got a 9-minute video of me playing with a dildo (no, not like that!)

Jake bought me a King Cock Uncut for Sexmas and I was so intrigued by it. I had never used a dildo with a foreskin before, and I decided to test the foreskin out on camera. It went a lot less smoothly than I had hoped!

If you want to watch it (and hear two bonus Pillow Talk episodes every month), head on over to our Patreon and become one of our Friends With Benefits!

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