A stupid simple way to come faster and harder 🤚🤯
Hi!
Here’s a little secret about sex blogging: the best sex advice is often really simple.
The tips that will improve your sex life can usually be summed up in one quick sentence.
Make noise during sex.
Use more lube.
Masturbate together.
Take a sex quiz with your partner.
Bear down for better, easier anal.
Do everything - dick sucking, pussy licking, cock stroking, full-on penetration - with lots and lots of enthusiasm.
And now there’s a new one I want to talk about: resting your hand on top of your partner’s hand when they get you off.
That sounds really fucking basic, but it just works.
When I have a hard time getting to an orgasm, I’ll put my hand on top of Mr. Austin’s and feel what he’s doing to me.
I come almost instantly.
Even when I can get there with no problem, I'll still touch his hand sometimes.
Something about it makes the pleasure he’s giving me feel more vivid and vibrant. The orgasms are longer, stronger, and more impressive.
I don’t know all the psychological processes involved in this. All I know is that using my hand that way makes it feel like my whole mind is engaged. I hone in and focus on everything that’s happening to my pussy.
This week, I wrote about this weird little trick and two other methods I use to fire up my imagination during sex.
Pleasure isn’t just physical. It’s mental and emotional, too. Anything that gets your head in the game will make sex better. So, definitely try these out.
I also wrote about:
What to do when you’re the partner with the lower sex drive. It’s a fucking tough position to be in. There can be a lot of guilt, feelings of inadequacy, and sometimes even resentment for your partner’s horniness. I wrote about all the things I’ve done to make it a lot easier.
How to play with an uncut cock. I’ve got zero experience with circumcised dicks. I’ve seen thousands of them in porn, but all my first-hand experience has been with cocks that are sheathed in foreskin. I know those can be intimidating for people who have never played with one, so I gave a few essential tips on how to stroke, suck, and fuck and uncut cock.
The Soraya Wave. Lelo reached out to me and asked if I wanted to review this toy. I said yes because it’s a luxury sex toy and I wanted to know if that made a difference. Plus, I had seen it everywhere - review blogs, YouTube videos, social media - and I wanted to see if it lived up to the hype. A few orgasms later and I was ready to share my thoughts.
And on this week’s episode of the Pillow Talk podcast, Jake and I talk about sex while drunk or high. We cover the differences between the two, the perks of each, why I basically never have sober sex, and why Jake almost always does.
Enjoy!
Love,
Emma ❤
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My Latest Medium Posts
These are the articles I published this week on Medium. They're all Friend Links so you can read them for free, even without a Medium Membership.
From Love, Emma
Fifteen years ago, I started looking for ways to improve my sex drive. My libido crashed abruptly and I couldn’t get it back no matter how hard I tried.
The advice was frankly terrible. Everyone recommended either scheduling sex or, worse, just letting yourself get fucked and trying not to hate it.
Neither of those worked for me at all, and it took me years to find things that did.
This piece from my blog Love, Emma is about one of the best ways to get in the mood when you’re struggling to get there.
Pillow Talk with Emma Austin
I'm always at least a little high when I have sex - except when I've had a few drinks.
That's been pretty peachy for me, but for Jake it's a whole other story.
This week, we talk about the perks and downsides of having sex while drunk or high.
I go over my list of reasons Jake is a much better fuck when he's sober. We discuss the sexy side of sweater weather, treadmill masturbation fantasies, and drunken dick stabs. And we may or may not have offended unicorns.
Check out the show notes for relevant links. And if you love the show, consider rating and reviewing it on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Podchaser, or anywhere else!
Something Spicy
The babysitter fantasy is a huge one for me. Grown men who are attractive, responsible, and not scared of commitment? Sign me up!
It just made sense for my first erotic novella to be about a babysitter who has her way with the man of the house.
Nina has a thing for older men. And she’s got the hots for one in particular, Greg Thompson.
There’s only one problem. Greg is Nina’s boss.
Oh, and he’s married.
But working under him is the perfect opportunity for Nina to get closer to Greg and make him realize she’s exactly what he needs.
They fall madly in love, but will Greg ever be ready to leave his loveless marriage? Will Nina get her Happily Ever After with the man of her dreams or will she be left to pick up the pieces of her broken heart?
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